Has he cheated on me through fabswingers?? (2024)

Leanne W(626)

23/06/2021 at 10:24 pm

It's a while since I've been on FS, I'll admit (pandemic!) but to be frank this looks like the sort of verification message that's written by a man pretending (very badly) to be a woman. There's a few fake profiles on there, including a sort of loose network that verifies other men (and a few men who put up fakes so they can verify themselves!)

However, the worrying thing for me would be that your partner feels the need to be a verified member. People generally do that because it gets them more responses, and members are more likely to meet with or send photos to verified members. So your partner is obviously trying to maximise his chances.

Whether he intends to meet up with anyone or not (and in our experience at least 9 out of 10 men on FS are fantasists, pic collectors, or are all mouth and no trousers), the fact is that he's carrying on doing something that he knows you are uncomfortable with. That shows a massive lack of respect for you, if nothing else.

In your situation I'd probably be ending the relationship.

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so the fact that he’s already done this in the past gives him reason to do it again... the whole comment/message/verification notification in itself wether it be made up(false account by him, as someone previously stated) or not would just blow me out the water if I found that on my partners phone i would instantly loose trust. AND the recently deleted dick pic???!!! Nah ticking all the right boxes for the wrong reasons!

Youre going through his phone because you don’t trust him, are you going to ever? Do you want to put yourself through this forever?

You need to be selfish and think of yourself and your own happiness! You don’t deserve it! Be strong ♥️

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Leave him hunni, if he didn’t cheat 5 months ago for that verification he clearly has every intention of doing so if given the opportunity.

Don’t know how he can deny it when he has that account open, don’t allow him the opportunity to get in your head and manipulate this situation. You have all the evidence you need to justify leaving him for betrayal.

Best of luck xx

Yes he has. Verified meets is your partner engaging in sexual activity with another swinger. I hate how blunt and horrible that sounded.

you will see on her profile she is also verified and will have ‘reviews’ by other people.

im so sorry your going through this, I’m familiar with the website through a friend however haven’t been on it myself personally so do know most of how it works.

I really am sorry this has happened and I hope you find the courage to make a decision that’s best for your family x

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I have been on and off the site for a number of years. It is full of fakers and chancers.

The profile in your screenshot is no longer listed so they have either changed the user id or made the profile private.

If you want to private message feel free Hun x

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ive been in a similar previous relationship with someone who used this site to mess around behind my back. So I’m so sorry your going through this similar experience.

Without being a member of that site you can still google the profile name and gain access to some info from their profiles. Sadly I had to learn how to investigate to this level for my experience. I went further and actually set up a fake acc myself, waited a while whilst gaining friends on the site etc. Then added him, then had access to everything on his acc, all veris and his photos with other women, horrendous.

I’ve done a basic search for you and here is his acc on that site. He met bustybabe84 in 21 Nov 21, no veris since though. I’ve included a pic of his veri on her acc. He was also last on the site 2 hrs ago. He’s got 35 pics on his acc which without being a member they a blurred. He’s a cheater hun so sorry to confirm this. Xx

Hey Michelle,

Im really sorry if this is inappropriate but I wondered if you could do a search for me on Fab please?

One of my friends has informed me of a profile she thinks is my boyfriend so really wanted someone impartial to look.

if you could help that would be great. No worries if not.

thank you

Thank you 🙏🏽

Feel like I’m going crazy even having this conversation!

That is super kind 😃